"Dear Mommy. I hope you're alive. Are you okay?" 4-year-old quake survivor writes

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In this March 22 photo, Manami Kon, using Japanese hiragana characters she just learned, writes a letter for her mother who's still missing after the March 11 earthquake and tsunami at the devastated city of Miyako, northeastern Japan. The 4-year-old Manami wrote, "Dear Mommy. I hope you're alive. Are you okay?" It took about an hour for her to finish it. Twenty days after the disaster that hit Japan's northeastern coast, her parents and a sister were still unaccounted for.

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In this March 22, 2011 photo, Manami Kon, 4, waits for her parents and younger sister who are still missing after the March 11 massive earthquake and tsunami, in Miyako, northern Japan.

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In this March 22, 2011 photo, 4-year-old Manami Kon exchanges a high-five with her grandmother at the devastated city of Miyako, northeastern Japan. Manami Kon's mother is still missing after the March 11 earthquake and tsunami.

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whatmins,

I would kill every single whale on this planet to save one human being. There is a special place in hell for people like you.

    Reply#119 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 12:13 PM EDT

    Whatmins, too bad you're not a whale.

      Reply#120 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 12:15 PM EDT

      Stories like this show the true nature of our humanity. This little four year old girl has lost her family and people on this board squable. This is a time to focus our combined efforts to assist those in Japan as they struggle to rebuild their homes and lives. Instead of feeding the trolls of the internet with your spiteful replies take a dollar out of your pocket and donate it to a good cause. That dollar will help Manami and others like her as they move forward in their lives.

        Reply#121 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 12:22 PM EDT

        A tear falls as I write, heartbroken over the tragedy and what these people have to endure , and the special class they show as they make the best of what life can offer at the moment. All can learn life lessons from them.

        As for the insensitive comment from whatmins, just an attempt to rile the masses so they may have their 5 minutes of supposed fame. I would prefer he/she would come unto me - I would gladly assist them in understanding the errors of their ways.

        Peace for all you beautiful Japanese people !

          Reply#122 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 12:23 PM EDT

          Hey Sweetheart,

          This is for you and you alone (i apologize that we can't seem to focus on the topic at hand and usually end up hurting others in process when what we need to be doing is healing others):

          You are an amazingly strong young lady. I know life can seem bleak at times, and i know this experience is going to mold who you will forever be. but please do not let it taint you, i can see you have a strong and beautiful soul (just look at that smile!), and i know you will live an amazingly wonderful life if you don't let your past tragedies taint your day to day world. Your strength has touched me! you and your grandma will be okay sweetie, you will. Let this help create a drive to succeed, but most importantly to be happy. Strive to be happy; Seek it out, demand its presence in your life.

          When life is hard i always try repeating words of inspiration. For you i keep thinking "this too shall pass" and "keep in the sunlight"

          keep in the sunlight sweetie, and never lose that beautiful smile of yours.

            Reply#123 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 12:32 PM EDT

            my heart goes out to the 4 year old quake survivor. The picture with her grandmum resonates in my heart because she has a relation she can connect with, in the face of this deafening loss. To the japanese nation my thoughts are with you . You have risen from the ashes of 1945 to become an econmic giant, and i believe you will again rise to the occasion. To the young japenese who have lost parents, siblings, homes and in some cases the future, be rest asured, that the japanese nation will not gamble with its future. You will find homes, siblings and parents albeit not the ones you are used to. The nations of the developing will never abadon japan at this moment of loss and deep sorrow. Ineed we are with you in spirit and in our prayers.

              Reply#124 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 12:32 PM EDT

              This is incredibly sad. My heart aches for this little child.

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              Reply#125 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 12:34 PM EDT
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              The little letter was so cute but sad. I, too, hope Manami Kon's parents and younger sister are still alive and okay. She hasn't seen her entire immediate family since the quake and tsunami. She's just 4 years old. My, my. What a thing for her to go through.

              I see she has her grandmother, though. At least she's not totally alone and without close family. Yet, it would be truly wonderful if Manami Kon's entire family appeared one day, soon.

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              Reply#126 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 12:44 PM EDT

              This is just.....just, so sad. What a cute little thing. I'm sure there are many stories like this in Japan right now. These people seem to have a great resolve. I wish them well and hope that they can get their island back to normal quickly. Nobody deserves what happened to them. Nobody. I wish I could go over there and, somehow, help.

                Reply#127 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 1:06 PM EDT

                So heart-wrenching to see Manami-chan. Much more agonizing knowing that there are many children in Japan in the very same situation. Manami is lucky to have her grandmother, but I do hope that the parents and sister are alive somewhere. We are parents, too, and Manami-chan's plight just breaks our heart.

                  Reply#128 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 1:07 PM EDT

                  How truly sad. I feel for the little girl and will have her and her missing family in my prayers. A loss of this kind is hard as there is no opportunity for closure. You simply feel like the missing has left and will eventually return and the time apart wondering hurts. Lord, be with everyone touched by this situation.

                    Reply#129 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 1:15 PM EDT

                    I'll repost this since it was a few pages back.

                    jhoop56 wrote the following:

                    If there is a God in any of this, one would have to say he/she/it needs to treat her better. I suggest thanking such a brute is so much self-debasing tripe and speaks to a fairly twisted and repressed psyche.

                    No "persecution". Just not a lot of tolerance for inanity -- and not a great inclination to extend a waiver for responsible and sympathetic behavior to those who would leverage tragedy to promote a religious agenda.

                    I'm confused. You say you are not trying to persecute the faithful or those that believe in God, yet you turn right around call it inanity? While I am not super religious myself, I don't think it is very productive to bad mouth or dismiss the feelings and beliefs of others. Despite what you may think, there are those that DO find comfort in their faith when faced with immense tragedy. Why are you so against anyone suggesting that this child look to her faith for comfort, if it was something that worked for them? Is it not in our nature to try to make suggestions to those in need based on what worked for ourselves? Granted looking toward a higher being for some sort of comfort and understanding may not be possible for this little girl. But, don't call the effort or mere suggestion inane or supporting a fairytale just because that is what you think it is. Why not let this little girl and others like her try whatever they need to, to move past this tragic event? And if that means praying to God, then so be it. To many, their faith is very powerful and very real. Just because you can't see it or understand it doesn't mean that it is a pointless act. Nor does the mentioning of a higher power necessarily a push to convert someone or further a religious agenda. I find it very interesting that you seem to automatically draw the conclusion that the religious have to be up to something when they dare mention the existence of a God. You may believe that those that are religious are short sighted, but you sound like you are too.

                      Reply#130 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 1:19 PM EDT

                      It still makes me really laugh out loud whenever I run into "religion" and God bashing atheists who still fail to realize that atheism is a religion as well all despite all of the delusional denials. So they are not bashing religion, they are bashing Christianity and they are too afraid to bash Muslims. Atheistic babble is a form of "religious agenda" as well. It really is a sad case that atheists do not realize that what they fervently believe in, that is absence of God or any higher being, in itself is a form of religion they are actively promoting. They are atheist thumping and they bitch about Bible thumpers. It's high comedy. I laugh in the faces of all atheists... they are truly pathetic. And they will always get defensive and argue on and on and on that atheism is not a religion. Sorry, atheists... it is a religion and you promote it like it is. And angry atheists really really make me laugh out loud. Check that... angry pseudo-intellectual atheists who treat the thesaurus as their Bible make me laugh the hardest. ha ha.

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                      #130.1 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 10:15 PM EDT
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                      I pray not only for all of those affected by this tragedy but for those insensitive and non-believers who use their personal agendas to attack others. Give it a rest!

                        Reply#131 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 1:37 PM EDT

                        No one can prove the "GOD" thing or disprove it until we die and then it's too late to pass on the truth. So let us believe as we will with no hard feelings for those who are of differant opinions.

                        I think most of us can feel for the loss of life and tremendous sorrow that the people of Japan are suffering. Help, not talk is what they need.

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                        Reply#132 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 1:41 PM EDT

                        You are correct that they do need immediate help right now. They need clean water, food, shelter and the like to at least get by and live more comfortably. Now whether they pray for comfort or not doesn't really matter. My main point with jhoopy is that the people that are religious that are making postings suggesting or offering prayers are well within their rights to do so and I'm sure that they are not doing it to push some kind of religious agenda like jhoopy seems to think. Other than making donations of some sort, offering a prayer is another way that people wish to offer their help. They ought to be able to do that without getting any guff.

                          #132.1 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 1:55 PM EDT
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                          i'm sitting here looking at my 4 1/2 year old granddaughter and i

                          could never see her without her parents or me as i have her 2/3 of the time.

                          this little girl in japan doesn't even know what is going on right now and is scared.

                            Reply#133 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 1:47 PM EDT

                            This is heartbreaking. I hope her pain diminishes with time.

                              Reply#134 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 2:17 PM EDT

                              Well, if that lead picture doesn't bring a tear to your eye nothing will.  -s

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                              Reply#135 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 2:26 PM EDT

                              I had to close my door while I cried for this little girl this morning in my office. As a father of a little girl, that picture of Manami sitting alone and looking out to the sea perhaps looking for glimpse of her parents with that innocent hope of finding her parents....it breaks my heart. On a human level, whatever agendas people have, seeing this tragedy through this child's eyes has to inspire us to be better than we really are. It puts me to shame for all the discontent that I can muster up in my own life when I see this innocent child simply hoping to see her mother again. From every parent, we sincerely hope she finds her family.

                              From Korea, our deepest prayers

                                Reply#136 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 5:52 PM EDT

                                I think I have something in my eye.

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                                Reply#137 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 8:07 PM EDT

                                The heroes in this story are grandma and the little girl, and the rescuers out there working to save lives.

                                The religious trolls and the PETAs are not heroes in any sense of the word...

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                                Reply#138 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 8:28 PM EDT

                                Those actively espousing "atheism" is a "religious troll" as well. Atheism is a religion as well despite the delusional denials from atheists. That's why atheists make me laugh the hardest because it is the most empty form of religion there is. Pity all atheists who do not know just how pathetic they truly are... all this while they constantly ridicule God and those who believe in God. Only way you can be more pathetic is if you are an atheist who is also a member of PETA.

                                  #138.1 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 10:01 PM EDT

                                  Atheism, or religiosity, has nothing to do with this child or her fate. STFU.

                                    #138.2 - Fri Apr 1, 2011 3:32 AM EDT

                                    Then tell that to the Atheists and the religious zealots in here then. What's wrong? Afraid to have a fight with them? Read the entire thread first before firing off some bizarre rant of your own. And did you even read the article or have any idea how Japanese society works?

                                      #138.3 - Fri Apr 1, 2011 1:41 PM EDT
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                                      What a sweet child. My prayers go with this poem. Feel free to share for Manami's sake, so long as it is not used for profit.

                                      Tears Rim the Pacific
                                      For Manami Kon

                                      "Dear Mommy, I hope you’re still alive,"
                                      She writes, and tears rim the Pacific in her eyes.
                                      At times, tremors still ripple the child's frame.
                                      "Are you okay?"

                                      Her grandma and her pink sweater
                                      Keep her warm
                                      And hold her close when she
                                      Takes refuge in their arms.

                                      She can still laugh,
                                      And scrunch her nose and eyes,
                                      And shake the short black hair that frames her face
                                      As she and grandma grin and clasp hands.

                                      Her baby-fat fingers grip the pencil
                                      And, with the patience of a child,
                                      Scrawl lines of hopeful life where older bones
                                      Would labor in despair.

                                      Her grandma and her pink sweater
                                      Keep her warm
                                      And hold her close when she
                                      Takes refuge in her arm,

                                      Hiding the tears that pour
                                      From the tear in her heart—
                                      From the tears at the Pacific’s rim:
                                      "Dear Mommy, I hope you’re still alive."

                                        Reply#139 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 10:54 PM EDT

                                        No article ever touched me as much as this. This little girl is facing the worst challenge any child should ever go through. I wish there was some way to comfort her or help to understand this tragedy, but lets face it I do not even fully understand it my self. I wish her luck and it is with the greatest compassion that I wish her strength to face the reality that seems to be her fate. I trust that someday because of this event she will overcome it and become a beacon of strength to all those who have or will suffer as she did. And to those of you who have taken issue with the comment left by the misguided PETA supporter please do not take any more time to comment on that post. It only detracts from the real story and validates the posts aim at getting your attention. Also, to the writer of the post Whatmins you would not condemn a wolf for killing an elk to feed her hungry pups. You would not condemn a cat for eating a mouse to survive a harsh winter. But for some reason you would condemn a person or a entire country of people for surviving as they were tought many generations ago. Are we so advanced as a people that we no longer require animals to survive? And if so then how do you think we got that way? To deny our ability or legitimacy to kill and consume is to deny our place in the food web and to do that is denying that we ever survived by killing and consuming just like others creatchers on this planet. It was not that long ago when the skills that these people still practice were the very things that allows us to sit back and be comfortable enough to have supper markets where we can make better choices as to what we eat. However in a tragedy like the one their facing I hope their are enough people there who still remember how to survive of the land the way we used to, because the food may run out soon and the only ones to survive may be the ones who still remember how to get food from the whales. If that is the case I wish them good hunting so that they can survive to teach the next generation how to survive if the stores are out of edable food, the water is contanimated, your shelter is destroyed and your cut off from help. Those people you hate may be the ones you celebrate for keeping you alive with the skills you strive to forget.

                                          Reply#140 - Thu Mar 31, 2011 11:54 PM EDT

                                          This poor child could be the poster child for HOPE in such a devastatingly sad situation.

                                          Sorry to stray off topic; apparently I've missed some really inappropriate comments made earlier, judging from the reactions of many commenters. All I can say is these attention whores will only get as much of a rise from us as we give them, and also, I'm saddened enough just from the disasters themselves, I'm glad I wasn't online earlier to see what coldhearted emptiness these fools left for others to see. Karma remembers...

                                            Reply#141 - Fri Apr 1, 2011 1:49 AM EDT

                                            My heart aches to comfort this child, and despite the ever lengthening odds, I hope that a miracle could happen.

                                            If it can't and her mother is lost, as I must resignedly fear, I would her support from loving relatives.

                                            If they all perished, then I hope that the Japanese government can see to her education.

                                              Reply#142 - Fri Apr 1, 2011 3:28 AM EDT

                                              I have not been able to stop crying for this little girl...I wish I had the power to stop sadness and pain in all the children in the world. They don't deserve to suffer!! I can't even imagine what these people are going through. My grandson is half korean and he has the most wonderful smile..so I see him in this little girl and feel so sad if he were the one going through her pain. I pray that God give her a happy life with her grandmother and that her grandmother lives a long time until she grows up to be an adult..it would se sad if she was left an orphan twice in her life! I will keep you in my prayers and as I am sure thousands will too. Take care little one. God knows your needs and he will provide for you!

                                                Reply#143 - Fri Apr 1, 2011 1:35 PM EDT
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